Martes, Mayo 1, 2012

The Side Mirror

My dear readers, my first entries I have published here may always serve as my last will. I would like to acknowledge each and everyone that I have always considered each and every day of my life as my last day.

Sometimes I thought:

“Mabagal lang ba tayong tumatanda o mahaba lang talaga ang buhay?”


No one has ever answered this for no one will even bother to think of it in these days where we were all busy to make our own lives.

Nowadays, news have make us smile, make us proud, make us inspired, make us hopeful, make us thankful, make us angry, make us guilty, make us sad, but most of the time, they make us aware and concern.

I had once mentioned in my valedictory address:

Sa ngayon ay may tatlong uri ng kabataan.

Ang mga kabataang suliranin lamang ang nakikita at hindi ang pagbabago at ang tanong ay laging ganito, “Bakit ganito ang ginagawa nila, bakit ganito ang ginagawa natin?”

Ang mga kabataang nakakakita ng mga suliranin sa ating paligid, nag-iisip ng pagbabago subalit ang tanong ay, “Bakit pa natin gagawin?”

At sa huli, ang mga kabataang nakakakita ng mga suliranin sa paligid, nag-iisip ng pagbabago at higit sa lahat, ang tanong ay, “Bakit hindi natin gawin?”

Now, ask yourself. Who am I? Have I done something good?

Shakespeare have once quoted, “We know who we are yet know not what we may be.”

I would also like to share a selection read to us by our fourth year adviser and English teacher. It belongs to an anonymous writer. This is not exactly the words but I just rephrased it based on how I remember it.

“When I was young and free and my imagination had no limits, I dreamed of changing the world.
As I grew older and wiser, I discovered the world would not change, so I shortened my sights and decided to change only my country. But it was always impossible.
As I grew into my twilight years, in one last desperate attempt, I settled for changing only my family, those closest to me, but alas, my wish did not come true .
And now as I lie on my deathbed, I suddenly realized: If I had only changed myself first through my aspirations, then by example I would have changed my family. From their inspiration and encouragement, I could have changed my country and, who knows, by influence, I may have even changed the world.”
We are the youngblood of this nation today, a nation which I can’t still say as making progress but somehow just making changes for the youth, together with the grown-ups, is known as the catalyst of change.
We don’t lack time, we waste it. Let us admit it. Nowadays, students don’t have the ideas, the actions, the dreams. They are not aware. They are not concern. There is always a MUST, there is always a CAN, but is there’s a WILL?
John F. Kennedy left us with his words, “Ask not what your country can do for you. Ask what you can do for your country.”
Severn Suzuki, at the age of 12, had silenced the UN Earth Summit 1992, had silenced the world with her minutes of speech in which she challenged the grown-ups to reflect their own words into actions.

Today, we may be students but tomorrow or someday, we may already be heroes of this nation, villains of this nation or even tambays who have just witnessed, who have just blame and complain.
“Walang masamang mangarap. Libre lang mangarap.”
But we should always have deadlines on our dreams. Let us turn our dreams into goals.
Happiness or success is not a destination. It is a journey.
“Para tayong nakasakay sa isang dyip patungo sa isang magandang lugar. Dahil sa iniisip natin ang ating patutunguhan, di natin nakikita ang mga magagandang tanawin na ating nadadaanan.”
We then ask God why we are not happy, why we are not successful, without thinking life gives us not what we want nor what we need, but what we DESERVE!
I would like to leave some words of wisdom to you, ladies and gentlemen:
Dream what you want to dream. Do what you want to do. Go where you want to go. Be what you want to `be. Grow as what you want to grow.

A poet had once said:

Life is a goal. Reach it. Life is a challenge. Meet it. Life is a dream. Realize it. Life is a game. Play it. Life is an opportunity. Grab it. Life is a mystery. Unfold it. Life is a puzzle. Solve it. Life is a song. Sing it. Life is a struggle. Accept it. Life is a sacrifice. Offer it. Life is a sorrow. Overcome it. Life is a joy. Spread it. Life is love. Share it. Life is a romance. Enjoy it. Life is a gamble. Take it. Life is a tragedy. Face it. Life is a promise. Fulfill it. Life is a battle. Fight it. Life is a journey. Complete it. Life is God’s gift. Cherish it.

Life is short, live it. Life is simple, people are complicated, expect it.

Your body is fragile and your heart is fragile, take care of it. Your mind is wasted, clean it. Calories, burn them.

Love is rare, take it. Let go. Move on. Search. Wait.

You have blessings, share them. You have more than enough, give it.

The lessons of the past, review them. The lessons of every day, pick them. Mistakes are everyday, failures are everyday, correct them. Experience is everyday, learn from it. Problems are challenges, face them and solve them. 

There is beauty, look on it. Negative thoughts, stop them. Bad habits, change them.

You have anger, dump it. You are sad, dispose it. You have tears, wipe them. You have regrets, swallow it. You have doubts, erase it. Your have fear, face it. You hold the truth, say it and show it.

Talents are hidden, keep them but don’t hide them. Ideas are coming, ideas are flowing, write them. We have options, think of it. We have common sense, always bring it, always use it. Work for a cause, not for applause. Live to express, not to impress. Don’t strive to make your presence noticed but make your absence felt. You are working, do it, start it and finish it. You will do it, try it. You failed, try it again. You failed again, never give up, just try and try.

Chances are everywhere, grab them. Dreams are soaring, strive for them, follow and chase them. Success is for you, happiness is for you, go for it. If your wishes don’t come true, then make it happen.

Words can kill, so hold them. Wounds are deep so heal them. Your friends are many, count them, they are not unkind but just hard to find. Best friends are here, true friends are there. And I am one of them.

Your Mom and Dad loves you, love them. The world needs you, save it. The youth is smiling, the youth is striving, support them. Hope stands with you, plant it and carry it in your life.

Time is gold, time passes by, spend it. Memories are sweet, cherish them. Today is another day, wake up for it. Today is a gift, open it. God is great, thank Him. You don’t know the answer, find it. If you still don’t know, pray for it.

You can do it, prove it and show it. You are not perfect, accept it. You are a special person, smile for it. You are a good person, believe it. You are born and still alive, be proud of it. You are here because you deserve it. What I have said, don’t forget them. But remember them in your lives.

Now, I open to you a side mirror of my reflections and points of view about various thoughts which come upon me in just a jiffy. It is an entire coverage of my thoughts about the good and bad, birth and death, joy and grief, love and hate, friends and foes, rise and fall, wealth and poverty, virtues and vices, secrets and mysteries. 

With this, I realize the value of how an idea comes from just a second, how we write it in minutes, how we edit it in hours or days, how it challenge, inspire and influence others in his years!

And I have always believed that we are all writers, capable writers- no need to attend writing class where they just teach us the basics, the language, the words, what’s right or wrong. There are no standards in writing. There are only requirements- knowledge, observation, mood, experience, inspiration, opinion and imagination. Again, we are all writers, we just need to practice, show it and prove it!

The name of this blog has always made me smile for some reasons I don’t even know.

And I hope, we writers and readers, we, the concern, may be connected in these different horizons we may see beyond our own “side mirror.” Whenever our mind goes blank, let us look at the world differently. Let us smile and let the world wonder why.



Now, I look forward in every reader of these entries. I will leave you a challenge- at the end of the day, we MUST have something to share, something to reflect in our life, something to cherish.

“Ito pa lang ang simula ng lahat. Tayong lahat, ang ating mga sarili, ang ating henerasyon ang pag-asa ng ating panahon, ng ating bukas na walang nakakaalam kung saan patungo. Ang tanging may alam ay kundi tayong mga nasa kasalukuyang panahon na mismong gagawa ng ating hinaharap… ngayon mismo!”

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